Hello there! I just want to share my recent dream about the girl who I admired and had a crush before. But before I tell the dream itself, allow me to share first what are we in real life and what currently I am feeling. So I basically had a crush on her and tried to make a move, but later on we got awkward with each other because she might have felt that I liked her. Ever since then, I didn't expect anymore that she will reciprocate my feelings for her. And from there, I started to prioritize what's more important, which is my self and honestly didn't even think about her for a while now. We're friends and awkwardness was slightly removed, but we only talk if needed like in academics-related talks. But in my dreams, we're both walking going to our school while talking to each other and we are clearly fine and friends in my dreams. But as we're walking going to school, I just found the both of us holding hands, with the both of seemed to be very okay and didn't think about it. And I noticed that my three girl close friends from school were behind us, seemingly talking about me and my crush. It's already evening when we reached the outside of our school and we watched something happening outside, I can't remember what it is but here is what I only remembered. As we're both looking to whatever we're looking, I found my right arm already at her waist, and she hugged me from my side, and later on we kissed each other as if we're already official girlfriend and boyfriend. That moment felt very happy. We even said "I love you" to each other as we kissed each other and I only felt love that time, no other feelings, only love. We're both very happy with each other in my dream, but unfortunately it was all just a dream after all. And to be honest, that was already my third time dreaming about her, and the most surprising fact to me is that, I didn't even think about her anymore in a while as my priority about myself and my own life made her left my mind, yet here she is... she still appeared in my dream and I don't know why, but I'm happy though. That's all!
Dreams about people we have feelings for can often reflect our subconscious thoughts and emotions, even when we think we have moved on. Here’s a breakdown of the key elements of your dream and what they may signify:
Walking Together: Walking with someone often symbolizes a journey or shared experiences. In this context, it suggests a desire to reconnect or rekindle a friendship with her, reflecting your subconscious wish for a harmonious relationship.
Holding Hands: This gesture signifies connection, affection, and partnership. It points to your longing for intimacy and closeness, possibly indicating that you miss the deeper relationship you once hoped to have with her.
Friends Observing: The presence of your close friends could symbolize your social circle and their opinions or support in your life. They might represent the part of you that seeks validation or commentary about your crush, highlighting how this situation impacts your social dynamics.
Intimacy and Love: The affectionate moments—hugging, kissing, saying "I love you"—suggest that you have strong feelings for her that have not completely disappeared, despite your efforts to focus on yourself. These feelings may represent unresolved emotions, longing, or even hope for what could have been.
Happiness in the Dream: The happiness you experienced in the dream reflects your desire for a fulfilling relationship. This could indicate that, at a deeper level, you still value the emotional connection you had with her and perhaps long for a chance to explore that love.
Recurring Dreams: The fact that this is your third dream about her suggests that your subconscious mind is still processing your feelings regarding this crush. It could be a way of exploring what the relationship might have looked like and expressing feelings that may not have found an outlet in waking life.
In summary, your dream appears to be a manifestation of your feelings towards this girl, mixing nostalgia with the happiness you envision in a potential relationship. It highlights your desire for connection and intimacy, and it may be a reminder that while you’re focusing on yourself, the emotional impacts of your crush still linger within you. It’s healthy to acknowledge these feelings, and they might serve as guidance in understanding your emotional needs and desires moving forward.